Friday, June 3, 2011

Swearing

My mother never swore. Almost never. I heard her say “damn” once, but that was it. I remember one time when I was in the back seat of the car and she was driving. A nice conversation was underway between me and someone else in the car (I no longer remember who) when in response to something incredible that the other person said (probably my sister) I expressed amazement by saying not “gee” as I usually did, but rather “gees”.

Faster than a whip came my mother’s hand across my mouth. “You don’t talk like that!” she simply said, not yelling.

What did I do? What did I say? She went on to explain that “gees” was just too close to Jesus’ name. I was maybe nine or ten and I understood the Ten Commandments, especially the one about not taking the Lord’s name in vain.

Pretty rough, you’re thinking, to strike a child for that, but I am so thankful that she did. I don’t swear. I never picked up the habit and though I’ll let a character in my books swear, I never actually type the word. And my characters will never, ever use the Lord’s name in vain.

I remember a sad story about a poor, homeless child learning the Christmas story for the first time. He was amazed and happy to learn about the baby’s birth, but couldn’t understand why Mary had named him with a cuss word. Sad.

Sad. Yet amazing. Does anyone curse by saying “Oh, Buddha!” or “Hare H. Krishna!” or “Allah damn it!” or anything like that? Think about it.

7 comments:

  1. I do swear occasionally but something I NEVER do is take the Lord's name in vain. When I see people saying "Jesus Christ" on Twitter it makes my skin go all goose-bumpy - I hate it. I don't come from a particularly religious family but they always taught me not to say it and as I always went to Church of England schools, I guess it was instilled in us.

    CJ xx

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  6. I swear all the time. Usually avoid the taking the lord's name in vain route though. It's something that like your mom, I had learned the hard way in childhood. I am an atheist and still don't do it. It's a respect thing, for people who do believe.

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